(Closed) frantic: this upcoming weekend….

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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10218 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

((HUGS))… I’m confused propose or what?  Trust me I know about the cattiness!! If you read the email I sent to my M, ick… Just breath sit back and relax. 

Post # 4
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967 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Eeeek… propose or break it off??! Talk about two extremes! I hope he comes back rested and happy and ready to propose to you… Remember.. if it’s truly meant to be, it will work out!!! I hope everything is okay – keep us posted! *hugs*

Post # 5
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14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

So are you excited or uncomforable about the engagement? I don’t get it.

Deep breath, no worries! And he shouldn’t tease you like that! That’s mean! Unless he’s being honest, then i think it’s weird to say he may or may not propose! Oye, i’d go nuts.

Why are you scared about your boyfriend proposing? This should be a really happy, wonderful thing! Excited, yes. Scared? Not so much

Just becuase he’s not ready to propose THIS weekend doesnt’ mean he won’t be ready in a couple of months. How long have you been together? It’s a big decision–rest of your life kind of thing.  If you’re truly scared and uncomfortable with the idea of getting married to him, maybe that says something.

Your post is confusing. Not sure what cattiness you’re referring to or if there’s an ultimatum involved or what, that’s all!   

Post # 6
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2856 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

YIKES!! Those are two extremes… I would be going bonkers waiting on him. Well, I hope what happens is what you want but either way it always turns out for the best!

Good Luck and keep us posted!

Post # 7
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2820 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I hope things work out for you! Keep us posted here in the hive. =)

Post # 9
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14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Oh, don’t worry then! He may feel in general that marriage isn’t "for him" but I bet being with you makes it worth it. I have a friend like that, and she always tells me, "you know how I’m so independent and a feminist and I don’t believe in X, Y, Z, and marriage is kinda silly and pointless unless you’re going to have kids?" (btw they’re not going to have kids). "Well, (insert hubby name here) makes it all worth it"

He realizes how important it is to you and that it’ll make you happy. Plus, you guys went ring shopping, right?

 

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