Freaking out…

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
3112 posts
Sugar bee

@Sornusa:  Sounds like you’ve still got loads of time.  Just enjoy it while it lasts!

Post # 4
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Sornusa:  I freaked the eff out after we got engaged. Marriage IS such a huge commitment!

After a couple of months he went away for a month on business the weekend after going to a wedding. I missed him SO much! I realized that I hated being without him, and marriage was the right thing to do, 100%!

We moved up the wedding date by a whole year the week he came back!

Post # 5
619 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@Sornusa:  Yes! I was like that when SO said he was finally ready to go ring shopping. everything suddenly felt a whole lot more real! Now my proposal is imminent, I’m just really excited and happy that it’s about to happen 🙂

Post # 6
136 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I’m kind of in the same boat.  I would fantasize and dream of marrying my guy all of the time and I was so anxious!  I just wanted him to get the show on the road.  I know now that he has a ring and it is only a matter of time before it actually happens.  We live together and have for some time so there will be no major life adjustment in that regard but it is still kind of scary.  I too love my SO dearly.  He is the one I know I am meant to be with but now that an engagement is becoming a reality I can’t help but feel nervous about the situation.  I don’t doubt our relationship one bit and I am really excited but “the next step” can be intimidating when it is something as huge as marriage.  One thing that has helped me is looking at the engagement as him showing me that he wants no one else but me and I make him as happy as he makes me.  I truly think the most intimidating part of it all is the wedding planning part!!!!!!!!!!!


Just wanted you to know that you aren’t alone in your feelings 🙂

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