Freaking out – questioning everything

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
361 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@FutureMrsBPJ:  Hi Bee!  Ok, I don’t know whether or not this is “normal,” but if you’re not getting married till May 2014, why not take a month off from planning to decompress?  Let your hair down, enjoy your FI, just take things a little bit more slowly.  I don’t know if you FI is the right person or if you should be/not be having regrets, but maybe it’s best to think on these things with a wedding-clear mind.  🙂  You got this!

Post # 4
Member
7654 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@FutureMrsBPJ:  Without knowing more about your FI, I can’t comment on that, but everything else is normal. There are a lot of decisions and lots of money to spend on everything. It does get overwhelming. However, I am concerned that, given your feelings about FI, that may be contributing to you being overwhelmed. Why are you second guessing him? Did he do something speicifc or did something happen?

Post # 6
Member
3570 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

once you make a decision, move on.  Pick a cake, stick with your decision, and never look at pictures of cakes again.  Same thing with the dress, everything else.  Once you pick things you need to get off the blogs or you will go crazy with the choices!  That’s why a longer engagement can be hard… so much time to change your mind!

Post # 7
Member
861 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

@FutureMrsBPJ:  Are you serious about the FI being the right one question? If you are please stop the wedding planning and think, think long and hard. Obviously if you look at my name you see it is my second wedding. First time around I had the is this right thoughts. Part of me wanted to say “yeah mom get the deposits back” but I didn’t. I asked ppl casually if this is who they pictured me with(having to ask that is a sign) they danced around it b/c “no one says that to a bride”. I had second thoughts and then worried “well everything is paid for” (horrible reason to go through with it). So if any part of you is being seious THINK long and hard.

 

If anyone reads this maybe they will understand why I can be brutally honest. I lived the “well you don’t say____ to the bride”, well if someone had….

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