(Closed) Friend Trouble after picking BMs

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I just wouldn’t tell her any of the details that you have about the wedding…tell her you want it all to be a suprise for everyone…

other than that, I can’t think of anything…You just have to put her back in her place and tell her that the bridesmaides will sort out the finer details.

Post # 4
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808 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

bump 🙂

Post # 5
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407 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

You were very direct and upfront telling her she wasn’t in your wedding, be upfront and direct about telling her to knock it off. I would tell her that I you valued her and her friendship enough to want her at my wedding but the snide remarks need to stop. You know her feelings are hurt and you’re sorry but being snippy isn’t going to change anything and it’s making you not want to see her. Just be honest.

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