(Closed) Friend upset not MOH

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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944 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

You are not obligated to give her an explanation as to why she’s not included unless you want to salvage a friendship – that being said, she sounds like it’s all about HER – who needs that? Not much of a relationship to me. I wouldn’t even invite her as a guest.

Post # 4
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1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@st979:  I would inform her that your decision is final BUT I would ask her if your friendship was so valuable why were you left out of her bridal party? I would tell her as your respected her wishes she needs to respect yours. It was not an affront to her whatsoever. You figured she would be too busy and asked Sam instead.

Post # 5
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7794 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would tell her, “My bridal is my decision, just like your bridal party was your decision. I didn’t complain about not being in your bridal party, so what’s the problem?”. In fact I would be tempted to text/email that response. You don’t need to meet her and you don’t need to justify amything.

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