- 6 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
My BFF of many years, flew over to visit me for 2 months. From the first day I noticed she didn’t really like my BF…don’t know why, my BF was so nice to her, offered to buy her flowers so I can take it when I go pick her up from the airport, etc. She was to stay at my house. So she comes, everything is alright, next day she tells me my BF is not very good looking, I’m worth someone who is more handsome, this and that. Now, my BF and I weren’t engaged at that time but we were planning. When I realized she’s not very happy for me, I stopped telling her things about him and didn’t even tell her that we’re almost engaged. She went away for a few days to visit family, and around that time my dad bought me a diamond ring as a gift for my graduation. My friend comes back, is a COMPLETE different person all of a sudden, and tells me she’s moving to stay with her relatives. I swear my family and I tried to make everything comfortable for her at our house so I was so upset she chose to leave. It was also a big surprise for me, because this is the friend who “missed me so much, and HAD to fly to see me”. She didn’t tell me she was upset though, just told me she’s going to her relatives house so she can fly back from there. Said she’s flying in 2 days at 8 p.m. I call her cousin that day and ask if she flew alright, her cousin tells me she’s still here…so my “friend” lied to me, I have no idea why. She just didn’t think I would call her cousin and I’d find out about her lie. I know she’s back home now, I texted her “are you alright? Why’d you lie to me about your flight date?” She texts back “It’s really sad when your BFF gets engaged and doesn’t tell you, that’s why I changed towards you” and she stopped answering my texts. Huh? Since when am I engaged? Do you bees think she thought the ring my dad gave me was from my fiance? She didn’t give me a chance to explain! I know I’m guilty for not telling her everything about my future FI but she didn’t seem like she cared! What can be wrong? I have no one else to talk to about this so advice is very much appreciated. If she was a good friend she’d be happy for all the attention my BF was giving me, right? My now FI is very attentive towards me. I didn’t think she wouln’t care since she was a COMPLETE different person back then.