Post # 1
I had planned on inviting my friend, whom I also happen to work with, to my wedding. He is getting married too and I am not invited to his wedding, which is not a big deal. I am on the fence about inviting him. I don’t know his wife very well and he doesn’t know my fiance. What would you do? Part of me is saying if I’m having doubts, cut! Thanks for your advice in advance.
Post # 3
I guess it depends on your budget. If you can afford it and want him there I’d say invite him. Otherwise I’d say no.
Post # 4
I think it depends on a) the budget/space limitations you have and b) whether you want to keep being his friend. We invited a couple to our wedding, I’d met her when I started a new job about 4 months prior and we’d become good friends in that short time. We’d spent some time with her Fiance too and liked them both and knew we would like to become better friends, so we invited them. If this is a person you want a real friendship with, who you would like to get to know better and stay in contact with after you change jobs, then I would invite him. But if you don’t care much either way, and especially since you know you aren’t invited to his, I would probably cut!