Post # 1
My friend’s stupidity which I talked about here: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/is-there-anything-i-can-say-to-knock-sense-into-her
is making me not want to invite her! She thinks she’s gonna be taking this guy. I’m HIGHLY doubtful. But it’s not just that. She is draining me with all of this drama and I know she is just going to be a debbie downer. I basically just don’t want her there!
Can I get away with telling her we had to cut our list? That sounds so harsh. Although, I am probably placing too much importance on this. She probably won’t care?
Post # 3
Well what is the new drama? And hell no – I would totally take the opportunity to ask him how his ‘job’ is and if he’s paid her back yet.
Post # 4
I don’t think you should not invite your friend because she’s making some poor choices that have no effect on your own personal life. I think you can tell her that she can’t bring a guest if you don’t want the boyfriend there, but that’s about it. You say you’re worried about her being a debbie downer at the wedding but I doubt the chick will follow you around on your wedding day sobbing about her problems.
Post # 5
@WillyNilly: << This. I love that idea so hard.