- 4 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
My friends want to throw me a bridal shower. It would be more of a brunch and they asked me my opinion. Since my fiancé and I are having a very small wedding, and the ladies who will be throwing me the party will not be there on the day of our wedding, I suggested that we call it bachelorette brunch or bridal brunch since “shower” is associated with gifts and that is something I will not be wanting.
Is it okay to have a party with my friends? They said that they want to celebrate with me to let me know I am loved. I don’t have many gfs and we all became friends after our guestlist was generated. I know ettiquette says that any pre wedding party guests must also be invited to the wedding, but in this case I’m not sure whether the same rules apply since it is my friends who are throwing the party and they all know about our small wedding.