- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
I have picked my bridal party which is compiled of my 2 sisters, 2 SIL, and best friend (maid of honor). Also there are just 2 best men. (FI doesn’t have many guys he wants by his side)
Let me first say that I have great friends! There are a few good friends who are not in the Bridal party but have generously offered to help with anything I may need. This means so much to me.
There is one friend of ours who isn’t a groomsman or best man that has the biggest heart but sometimes doesn’t have boundaries. Him and his wife are the type to invite themselves places or get offended if they’re not ALWAYS included in something. I know he wants to be involved and we can use all the help we can get but sometimes its a little overbearing.
For example: He often mentions the wedding and things that need to be done without us even mentioning it. He often puts his two sense into things when it is not requested. (I’m the kind of gal that thinks “if I need your input, I will ask for it”)
Maybe I’m over reacting but this kind of stuff bothers me and its no wonder FI didn’t ask him to be in our wedding.
How do I deal with this? What if there are certain things I only want my wedding party to be dipping their hands into? Am I being ungrateful?