Friendship question

posted 3 years ago in Elopement
Post # 3
Member
7195 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@iloverocks:  It’s not necessarily related to your marriage. People can want to reconnect for all sorts of reasons.

So I say ignore the timing, and meet if you want to, and don’t if you don’t.

If it was someone I had been friends with for 10 years, I’d probably meet up.

Post # 4
Hostess
7630 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

Why not meet up with her and find out what’s up?

Post # 5
Member
133 posts
Blushing bee

I’d go just to catch up. Meeting for coffee doesn’t mean you are suddenly friends again. She was part of your life for many years. 

Post # 6
Member
9529 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Personally, the possibility of getting to reconnect with an old friend definitely outweights the possibility that you get together and don’t mesh anymore. I mean if you guys don’t mesh anymore, you’re just in the same place you are now. But maybe you’ll hit it off again! So why not?

Post # 7
Member
5839 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

@iloverocks:  Maybe something was going on with her. I had a bad depression and fell off the face of the earth for 3 years. Luckily most of my friends welcomed me back with open arms. Listen to what she says, then make up your mind if you want he back in your life.

Post # 8
Member
6073 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Maybe she went through somethings really traumatic or difficult, so I’d give her the benefit of the doubt until I hear the reasons.

 

I have had people like that too.  One lady I reconnected with on FB, but then she dropped me again like a hot potato!  I cannot think what I did to her!  I try to believe it’s them not you.  LOL

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