Friendship question

posted 3 years ago in Elopement
Post # 3
7025 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@iloverocks:  It’s not necessarily related to your marriage. People can want to reconnect for all sorts of reasons.

So I say ignore the timing, and meet if you want to, and don’t if you don’t.

If it was someone I had been friends with for 10 years, I’d probably meet up.

Post # 4
7630 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

Why not meet up with her and find out what’s up?

Post # 5
133 posts
Blushing bee

I’d go just to catch up. Meeting for coffee doesn’t mean you are suddenly friends again. She was part of your life for many years. 

Post # 6
9526 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Personally, the possibility of getting to reconnect with an old friend definitely outweights the possibility that you get together and don’t mesh anymore. I mean if you guys don’t mesh anymore, you’re just in the same place you are now. But maybe you’ll hit it off again! So why not?

Post # 7
5812 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

@iloverocks:  Maybe something was going on with her. I had a bad depression and fell off the face of the earth for 3 years. Luckily most of my friends welcomed me back with open arms. Listen to what she says, then make up your mind if you want he back in your life.

Post # 8
6073 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Maybe she went through somethings really traumatic or difficult, so I’d give her the benefit of the doubt until I hear the reasons.


I have had people like that too.  One lady I reconnected with on FB, but then she dropped me again like a hot potato!  I cannot think what I did to her!  I try to believe it’s them not you.  LOL

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