Post # 1
I am not perfect by a long shot but sometimes I find myself talking about other men like I am. Recently I have gotten married the 18th will make it four months. I am happy with my wife and she is the love of my life. She is really my best friend. Getting to where we are today was not an easy. We have more great times than bad. I have to admit that I have a problem. I have a problem with flirting. Sometimes I do it without knowing I am doing it and others it is just to do it. It has gotten me in trouble a time or two before we were married. Recently I have been flirting and my wife has caught wind of it. I know what you are thinking I deserve everything that is coming to me. I am not taking away from that. I just want to make things right again. Can anyone recommend any good books to read that will help make things better or at least point us in the right direction. I love my wife and I want to be with her for the next 100 years and beyond
Post # 3
What do you mean by “flirting” ? It’s a good start that you are aware of the problem and want to fix it. Have you considered trying a counseling session together? That may really show your wife that you are serious and dedicated to getting past it and changing your flirting habit.
Post # 4
Sure, reading a book can help you take a look at yourself and your actions as an individual. I think counseling would be a great idea because you can walk away with practical applications, with “projects’ that you and your wife can work on together… it’s also a safe way to have open communication and be honest with one another, which is of the UTMOST importance when your goal is to spend the rest of your life together. Best of luck to you and your wife, put your mind to it and you’ll pass this test!
Post # 5
I agree with above as far as counseling. This may help unveil some deeper rooted issue that causes you to do this.
Post # 6
- Wedding: December 2016 - Madame CJ Walker Building
Pick up the bible…..It’s the best book you can read and serves as a blueprint on marriage…..
Post # 7
I think a counselor would probably be the best idea. Do you know why you’re motivated to flirt with other women? I think finding this out might help you stop. Best of luck to you and your wife.