Frozen out by 'Ice Queen Mama' & 'Snobister In law'

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
4576 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@allybee2013:  Listen: you cannot fix a problem you don’t know about. If you have asked these folks what their problem is in an attempt to clear the air, and they give you radio silence, then the ball is in *their* court. Again, ya can’t correct something if the offended party won’t tell you what’s wrong.

Try not to lose sleep over this. Just keep being a nice person to them, and that’s is really your only obligation.

Post # 4
863 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@allybee2013:  Meh, I think they’re probably upset because they weren’t invited to the overseas ceremony. These people who aren’t emotionally mature enough to discuss their feelings like adults are the ones with the problem. Not you.

Why could’t your FH say something to them, though? I understand not liking confrontation, but that’s no excuse to leave you to deal with his family treating you like this. Nobody likes confronting people, but adults talk about things so they can be resolved. It sounds like he is as bad as them about not discussing problems. 


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