Weddingbee boards

There are reasons a b2b does not do wedding planning with her FI at 2 a.m.  This is one of those.  As my FI and I were looking at an issue of Martha Stewart Weddings and trying to think of a theme that is "us."  He decided that we should have a Christian themed wedding as that is a large part of what defines us.  Numerous really bad ideas later, having looked at some gorgeous fruit and flower centerpieces, we decided on a fruit theme.  Our tables are going to be named for the fruit of the Spirit:love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.  I would love to be able to incorporate each of these words and ideas into the wedding in other ways (in addition to my fruit centerpieces - ha).  Does anyone have any ideas?  The first one seems easy enough, but how about the others?

Sorry.  What I meant by Christian themed was more Christian-inspired theme.  Rather than merely look to some of the more traditional theme ideas, we rememebered that our earliest conversations were debates over various theologians' writings.  So we considered everything from Biblical couples (that brainstorm session went badly) to our actual choice.  We have included the fruit theme on the stationery thus far (STD and invitation design) as well as on the website.  We are going to assign each "Fruit" to a fruit for the table naming, I think.  I think people have picked up on the fruit part, but it's the nine "Fuits" that I wonder about.  How do we make a wedding about joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control?  We've considered having a longer than usual program so that we can have various passages written about parts of the ceremony with those nine (including love, which is the obvious one) highlighted through the use of a larger or different (or both) font.  Ideas for what to include?  It's a destination wedding, so we are going to be with people all weekend and can work on those eight elements at other points in the weekend too.