(Closed) Frustrated

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Hostess
23639 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Aww, I’m sorry it’s not the way you thought it would be.  Are you sure you want to marry someone who isn’t ready?  Maybe it’s best if you get to the bottom of this before you walk down the aisle.

Post # 4
Member
1151 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Hmmm, this one is pretty tough. First, he doesn’t want to talk about it? That seems strange to me. And he’s only proposed when he’s been trashed? I see that as a red flag. I think you ought to have an honest and open conversation about the engagement. Let him know how you are feeling and don’t let him tell you that you are just anxious. It seems like there isn’t much honest communication and that’s not the best way to enter into a marriage.

Maybe it would be best to push the wedding off a little bit until you’re able to have the conversation and really get down to the root of your feelings. I know you don’t want to change the date again but I feel like it’s more important to be on the same page with each other.

Maybe examine why you’re feeling the way you are before you try to talk with him. If he understands how important this is, he’ll put aside whatever reasons he has for not wanting to talk earlier. Marriage is a serious commitment and shouldn’t be made lightly. I hope this helps!

Post # 5
Member
1140 posts
Bumble bee

Are you sure you want to marry someone who thinks proposing while being trashed/intoxicated and not in a clear mind set is okay? 

If you cannot sit down with him and talk about things I don’t think he is ready to get married and it sounds like he is stringing you a long.

Why did he change the date 5 times?

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