Post # 1
I’m so frustrated. I hate wedding planning. MIL hates my invitations and keeps bugging me about them everyday. I work 10-12 hrs a day. I don’t have time to design some elaborate thing. And who really cares? It’s something that people look at for 2 min away and put it away never to be seen again.
Bridesmaids can’t agree on a dress. I let them pick whatever they want, and they can’t even decide on long or short.
Fiance won’t help with anything. Every task I assign him, somehow he ends up getting me to do it.
I’m so frustrated!!!!! Please tell me this is worth it because I’m about to call this all off.
Post # 3
In the end it works out and you look back and just as you said you don’t give a crap what the invites look like. Let your bridesmiads duke it out and figure it out for themselves. As far as your FI, if you need him to help you can try what I did and give him the Knot list. Scared the crap out of my DH because he finally realised how much there was to do and he also got to pick what he wanted to do rather than what I deligated.
Everything will be ok. You’re just stressed and and need to do something for yourself that doesn’t involve wedding. Perhaps a relaxing day off at the spa or a movie or something?
Post # 4
Like PP says, it will all work out, it’s just a little overwhelming at the moment. Take some time to sit back, breathe, make a list & mayb e even sit down with FI to explain that things need to get done.
It will all be ok!