- 3 years ago
- Wedding: July 2013
My Mum and I are currently looking after my brothers children as he and his wife are away attending a wedding. My sister has been bringing her twins over every day after school to play with them. They are 7 years old. Yesterday they came over and my nephew chucked a tantrum because his Mum bought him a flavour of tic tacs that he didn’t like. He came upstairs and threw things around all over the place (all our washing was tipped on the floor, rubbish bins thrown and rubbish put everywhere, threw my brand new Go Pro on the floor, my iPhone, my Mac book my suitcases and clothes). I was furious at his lack of respect for our property. His twin came down and told us what had happened. When i went to inspect, i couldn’t believe the damage. My sister didn’t even look up, was playing on her phone. I was furious that my property had been damaged. I got angry at my sister and told her to go and inspect what her son had done. She finally went upstairs, picked everything up herself, didn’t say anything to her son. I got so frustrated at her lack of discipline of her child i told her to leave and to take her sons with her.
This is not a new issue, her kids are notoriously spoiled and ill behaved but this was the icing on the cake. Expensive property of mine was damaged and she couldn’t care less. Today she refused to speak to me because i got annoyed and then she finally came over and was being really rude and sarcastic towards me.
I’m due to give birth in 2 weeks and i really cannot handle her children coming over and disrespecting our things. What should i do? I’m currently staying with my Mum and Dad until our new house is built (estimated to be 2 months after baby is born) and i can’t stop her coming over.