Frustrated with the Best Man

posted 3 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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804 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Bribaby119:  I don’t quite understand how his anxiety around people makes him unable to have fun unless he can pick up chicks.  Those two facts just don’t add up.

I’d see if there was another groomsman/friend/family member that would be willing to take over planning duties with your fiance.

Post # 4
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214 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2005

@Bribaby119:   Perhaps you should just talk to your fiances other groommen and friends and tell them this is what he wants to do. Then I’d talk to the BM and just say that this is what your fiance wants to do and he can be involved but he dosnt have to be.

It dosn’t really sound like social anxiety to me…it mostly just sounds a little selfish on BM’s part.

It sounds like your fiance is a nice guy who dosnt want to hurt anyone’s feelings or but ultimately he should have the kind of party he wants and you should see that he gets it 🙂 

Post # 6
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214 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2005

@Bribaby119:  Maybe you should just have somebody else do it and help them. I don’t think it’s worth an argument or anything like that with BM but I do think your fiance should get his boys weekend. 

Also, I think it’s super sweet that you’re so concerned about this for him! He is a lucky guy! 

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