- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
……basically….. our wedding is in october and i have found and purchased my dress, jewelry, shoes, veil, bm dresses and shoes, unity candles, candle holder, linens, forks, spoons, knives, napkins, plates, wedding bands, cake and cupcakes are paid for along with the photographer, i have made bouquets, boutonierres, and corsages, ring bearer pillow, flower girl basket, centerpieces, card box, and the invitation layout is made all that needs to be done is have them assembled and printed needless to say the list goes on. I have been constantly searching and purchasing and organizing and assembling every thing involving this wedding by myself and i am okay with that.. but i found a cake stand that i love and i asked my SO if he would make it like four months ago… and i know our wedding is still five months away.. but its the fact that i have done and made SOOO much and spent all of my money on OUR wedding and i ask him to do ONE thing and he hasnt done anything except say “ok, il make it shouldnt be too hard” every time i say something like “i want to make the cake stand tomorrow” he says no… that i asked him to do it. i know im impatient but if i can do all that i have done… i feel like he should jump at the chance of making ONE thing… thats all he has to do is make a cake stand and make sure him and his groomsmen are at the ceremony… i have done everything else… and it stresses me out that he hasnt even made a plan.. our bought anything or even mentioned the cake stand… UGH!! Stressed out… to the max!!!! 🙁 just venting… sorry if anyone reads this!!