FSIL Bails on Bachelorette b/c FMIL Not Invited?

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

@MissCoCo:  I love your response to it, haha! I would just chalk it up to FMIL wanting to be more involved and going about the wrong way of showing it. I don’t think I’ve ever heard of FMIL going to a bachelorette because they do tend to be on the inappropriate side, and could quickly get very, very awkward. I’d just continue with the nope, no f*cks given today, sucks to be you, and go have a blast anyway 🙂

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

@MissCoCo:  Weddings are stressful things. I wonder if something was misconstrued between the two of them and it unfortunately ended up getting dumped on you? 

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee

@MissCoCo:  Omg I want to come to your bachelorette! I promise I won’t bring my mommy! I’m only 3 hours away! :O

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee

I keep freakin double posting lately.. ugh.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - British Columbia

FI’s cousin’s mother (FMIL’s twin) definitely was there for her bachelorette. They all had a great time! So, it’s possible to have fun with your FMIL!

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@MissCoCo:  Ugh. I’m assuming she’s not like 16 right? Parties are organized early, so I’m sure both FMIL and FSIL knew who was and wasn’t invited. If she didn’t want to come, she could have RSVP’d no. Also, she can’t even call you herself to cancel? What a baby. 

One of those times I’m so glad DH just has a bunch of brothers. 

Go have a wonderful boozy brunch and party with your girlfriends. Don’t worry about her!

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Every bachelorette party I have been at included the mothers for the tame part of the party (usually dinner) so I don’t think it’s that weird. It is rude of her to try to butt her way in though.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

Unbelievable! The mom called YOU to tell you the daughter isn’t coming b/c the mom isn’t invited!? That’s some bat-shit crazy level Passive Aggressive. 

I’m so glad you are over the tears part (I would have cried in shock, too, definitely) and have moved on the the NO F*cks Given part of the day!!!

Have a FAB brunch!

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Your FMIL expected to be invited to the bachelorette party???  She needs a good whack with a clue-by-four.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

@strawbabies:  Oh my goodness. I’m going to to use that at some point. Clue by four, love it.

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I think you must had the best bachelorette ever- jealous!!!

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