(Closed) FSIL

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
434 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

That seems very long and complicated and I’m not sure what advice to give for the long run, but in the short term, you already asked his younger sister and Fiance has made a personal request to ask his older sister. I think you should sit down and say to your Fiance, look, you know this is how I feel and the reasons why are X,Y,Z, but I want you to know I’m including your sister because I want to extend more effort on your behalf. I don’t think you need to pretend to be fuzzy and warm, etc. etc., like you don’t have to have your Fiance totally fooled like all of a sudden you’re BFF with his older sister if the relationship isn’t there, but it’s your FI’s sister, you have known her for 10 years, and if no other reason than it is what your FH wants from you, you have to be the bigger person. 

I’m sorry you were so hurt at her wedding, but you have a chance now to show that you have more class than that and be the bigger person – as annoying as it is sometimes.

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