(Closed) FSIL not a bridesmaid

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3175 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I think that if you genuinely don’t think she’ll be offended, and she’s not inviting you to be in her Bridal Party, then you’re fine. If you’re really worried, you could always ask the sister you’re inviting to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man how she thinks her sister will feel about it. Or ask your fiance how he’ll feel about it.

Post # 5
2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

You need to have who you want up there, if its that important to your FI’s family then they can have her stand in on his side. The girls you have need to be people you feel are supportive of you. Don’t let yourself be forced into something that you don’t want.

Post # 7
157 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

She didn’t ask you to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man and you’ve been with your Fiance for 4 years, I wouldn’t feel obligated to ask her especially since you guys are not close and your not part of her Bridesmaid or Best Man. Ask her to do a reading if Future Mother-In-Law wants her to be involved that bad and you don’t want to cause waves, but truthfully I don’t think Future Mother-In-Law has a right to be mad its yours and your Fiance day no one else’s! Goodluck!

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