(Closed) FSIL treating us like crap

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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141 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@ColoradoGirl:  Let that inner 5-year-old out! Keeps us sane during the wedding craziness.

I’m sorry about your awful FSIL, but probably your family recognizes that you’re a mature adult who doesn’t need hand-holding or coddling. I’m sure when your wedding comes around you’ll be getting some of the spolight, too. 🙂

Post # 4
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3302 posts
Sugar bee

Don’t worry about it because when her wedding is over, IT IS OVER! I just went through something like this with my FSIL and the day she got married three weeks ago, I was so happy…. Now the focus is on mine and I don’t have to worry about the pettiness, competition and etc. for now stay away from her, don’t let her in your bridal party and just keep planning. Once her wedding is over then it is YOUR turn with full attention.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Personally, I think you need to let it go and be the bigger person. I just dont see an example where she has been directly mean to you. It’s her wedding, so she gets to pick her bridal party (though your niece is super adorable). 

Also, maybe it’s just traditional here, but ILs typically throw family showers for the brides in addition to her having one thrown by her family. It’s typically more laid back and a “meet the bride” kind of event. I wouldn’t get too jealous of it. 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee

By the way…. Again, I love your date 😀 especially since it is a Sunday!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee

Wow, your FSIL sounds like my SO’s brother with boobs! *Hugs*

I tooootally understand how you feel.

I guess I don’t understand why everyone is fawning over someone who A. Doesn’t pay for anything and isn’t anywhere close to being an adult B. Someone who treats my family like crap.

Yep.

If you’re bored later and want a good laugh, read my thread “Oh, brother…”. I think you’d appreciate it. Sorry for the shameless plug. haha

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