- 6 years ago
- Wedding: July 2013
All right everyone, I just want to say that I need to let my inner five-year old vent for a minute. I’m not trying to sound jealous, nasty or hateful with this post. I love my family but I’m just mad right now. And I think it’s ok for me to be mad for a minute.
My little brother and his FI are getting married 2 months before me. This wouldn’t be a big deal but she’s a drama-queen and does anything to get attention. She made it clear with her actions that she doesn’t really like my family. None of my family is in her wedding party, not even my most adorably cute niece.
I mean, seriously, the girl is too cute. Sorry the picture is so big. My computer won’t let me resize tonight!
My little sister was best friends with my brother’s FI before her and my brother even met. So explain to me why she’s not having any of my family involved.
Not only that, but she’s immature, spoiled and has treated my family bad in the past. I distanced myself from her like six or eight months ago because I saw that she was underhanded, nasty and not someone I wanted to be around.
So fast-forward to tonight. I have dinner with my parents to talk wedding stuff. We get on the topic of my brother and his FI. My parents just found out that my brother and her have been living together and lying about it. They won’t say anything to my brother but are disappointed that he chose to lie. Anyway, I tell them that I really don’t want my bro’s FI doing anything for my wedding because she’s always bringing drama with her. They tell me that I need to be the bigger person and just involve her in some fashion anyway. Why would I do that? I don’t trust her and I don’t like her. Now I’m not going to be nasty and mean to her like she’s done to my family, but why do I have to include her? “She’s going to be family”. Well she isn’t my sister or blood so I will be polite but I can’t be friends with her anymore.
Then I find out that my family is planning a wedding shower for her. WTF? She has family and friends here that should be throwing that for her. So now she gets two showers and everyone fawns over her since she’s “so great”. And I get sloppy seconds since I’m after her. And it’s my family. Lovely.
I guess I don’t understand why everyone is fawning over someone who A. Doesn’t pay for anything and isn’t anywhere close to being an adult B. Someone who treats my family like crap.
I know, be the bigger person. Yes I plan on it but right now I’m just mad that this is happening. Tomorrow I won’t even give it a second thought since life will catch up one way or another with them. But right now, the inner five-year-old needs to scream.