- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 1999
If you’ve seen any of my other posts, you’ll know that I just got engaged (yay!!!) and also that I have 2 FSIL’s that I don’t particularly like. FSIL1 in particular is a huge raging bitch to me all the time, FSIL2 is nice to me but usually sides with her sister in ganging up on me. Both FSIL’s are much older and possibly a year ago, they went with me to a wedding expo as a joke basically. I tried on dresses and pretended I was engaged and it was really fun. At the time, I said they would be bridesmaids at my future, hypothetical wedding and they said they assumed that.
Now, here’s the issue, since then FSIL 1 and I had a huge falling out and recently she has gotten pregnant and decided she wants to try and repair the relationship (need to point out, she hasn’t apologised and she is most definitely in the wrong).
I expected this to happen, but I don’t know how to handle it without being nasty. Basically, these two girls think they are going to be bridesmaids and they are definitely not. I have no real obligation to make them bridesmaids (not in their weddings) except that I said about a year ago they would be. I don’t really think they can hold onto it, because surely FSIL1 at least would know she doesn’t deserve to be a bridesmaid.
Maybe I ask them to do a reading or something closer to the wedding depending on how they act? I have a feeling everything is peaches and cream now, but it is going to go to shit before long and they’ll be hating me again.