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    Ms_Charisma    October 2, 2010   MN

    I just got the contract from our photog...and I just requested an amendment to the contract. Paying in full prior to does NOT sit well with me.

     

    Maybe it's my Chicago upbringing ( Wink ) causing fear of being hustled! But we're paying 50% now, I can see paying another portion (maybe 25%???) two weeks before and the balance the day of, or after services are rendered. Or I'm comfortable just paying the final 50% that day. 

     

    What was your experience??

     
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    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    paying the final payment like a week before seems pretty standard. as long as they are a reputable studio and you have a good contract, it doesn't bother me. but then again, i'm a lawyer. so my legal fees would be pretty low if someone screwed me :) 

     
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    MissChirpie    August 2010   Minnesota

    Our final payment to our photographer is due a week before the wedding.

     
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    hilsy85    September 2010  

    Our final payment is due two weeks before the wedding. It seems pretty standard to me.

     
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    Kittyachi    August 2010   New York

    i think paying in full prior 1-2 weeks prior to services is standard. that's what my photog is doing.

     
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    jaylovessteez    September 19, 2010   CA

    we put $100 down and are paying the final payment a week before.

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    Our balance is due 1 week prior to our wedding, so as the other posters stated, I think getting paid in full prior to the event is standard with photographers. All of our other vendors have to be paid prior to the wedding too.

     
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    Ms_Charisma    October 2, 2010   MN

    Hmmm. Thanks for the input. None of my other vendors require full payment up front. Lots will be day of.... 

     
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    eurekaanchovies    March 27, 2010  

    Just to throw my two cents in... our photographer also required our final payment one week prior.  I think it's pretty standard.

     
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    guitargirl    October 2009   Ohio

    Our full payment was due a week before the wedding.  The only thing we had after was the bar bill.  Fortunately, this was the one vendor who did try to hustle us (closed the bar an hour earlier than the contract, didn't allow the band to eat even though we paid for vendor meals, and served the wrong food, and were AWFUL to deal with).  I took it to the owner who waived the bar bill. Unfortunately, our people didn't drink much ($500).

     
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    SuperBrook    5/7/2011   Kansas

    Ours requires 50% to hold the date and then full two weeks in advance.  If there's confusion regarding which package you want she'll let a couple pay $250 to hold the date, but the full 50% must be paid at least 6 months in advance.

    It all felt pretty standard.

     
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    KelBells    November 6, 2010   Atlanta

    Mine was $500 deposit and then the balance is due a month before the wedding.

     
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    SapphireSun    July 9, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    I guess ours are the exception here.  It was 50% due at booking and the remainder due upon pickup of the prints.

     
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    LindsayJeff    May 15, 2010   Rhode Island (wedding in MA)

    We paid $450 at booking and then the balance was due day of.

     
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    ribbons    June 12, 2010  

    Ours was 1/3 as a deposit, 1/3 2 weeks before, and the final 1/3 when the disk was ready. I wouldn't be comfortable paying in full without services rendered either.

     
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    BunnyBrideToBe    December 3, 2011   Boston, MA

    We have a $750 deposit, and then the balance is paid 2 weeks prior to the day. Sounds like this might be pretty standard!

     
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    PizzutiStudios       Boston Area

    We require 30 days which usually coincides with our venue walk through/ timeline meeting. We require payment upfront for a number or reasons. The first being we often develop a close relationship with our clients and after we spend this crazy emotional day with them and it gets super awkward when we have to asked to be paid. We are counting on that payment to keep our business going and food on the table. Checks bounce because weddings cost more then anticipated. They are away and we have to wait for them to return to deal with it. One client forgot the check or any other way to pay us. Told us "oh we will send it when we get back from honeymoon", six months later when they wanted to see their photos they finally paid. I had a couple once pay in cash, which was a significant amount. It was very stressful having to worry about it falling out of a pocket or leaving it in a camera bag. Cash or not, it is still stressful having to worry about any "paycheck" when you are running around all day. I want to be focusing on making pictures not the money I am holding. Another case there was a mix up on which parent was supposed to pay us and ended up being a huge disruption to the wedding and super awkward for us.

    It only took a few of these occurrences before we learned from those lessons. Just make sure you do your research on your photographer choice. Find reviews, check BBB, get references, see a wide range of their work before you sign any contract. Check their blog if they are updating and shooting a lot then they are probably running a good business.

     
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    crayfish    September 11, 2010   Berkeley, CA

    We paid in full already, though it wasn't due until a week before the wedding. I think the key here is choosing a vendor you trust. Is there any reason you believe that paying in full before the date is bad? Do they have poor reviews, or do they seem like they would be no-shows? In the age of instantaneous internet reviewing, that would be suicidal for a photographer. Unless it is a random person off of Craigslist, I think you'll be fine.

     
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    Ms_Charisma    October 2, 2010   MN

    @Pizzouti - that actually makes sense to not potentially run around the day of with a load of cash in an envelope...

     

    @crayfish, no, it isn't a lack of trust for the photog (or else we wouldn't go with her). It's just a general "I'm not paying before the job is done (or in progress)" basically. None of our other vendors require full up front payment so it was a little odd for me. Most things are settled day of or after. 

     

    Add to it that we live in MN and our wedding is in NC. So we've had initial meetings with vendors and will be back in the area in a few weeks (about 6 weeks before the wedding) so MOST details are being handled via phone and email. 

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    After speaking with the photographer, she has agreed to amend the contract to have final payment be in cash, the day of the wedding. So I'm happy!

     

     
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    CJTeacup    September 24, 2011  

    We are paying 50% down and balance due 2 weeks prior to wedding. Make sure you have your cash ready the day of, because your day will be crazy, and paying your vendor probably will be the last thing on your mind.

     
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    2PeasinaPod       Philadelphia

    @Ms_Charisma: Just make sure you get some sort of receipt from her if you're paying in cash. You don't want her saying that there was no record of payment, and with cash, you don't have anything to go back on.

     
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    Mermaid1082    September 4, 2010   St Louis, MO

    Our balance is due 30 days before, as are almost all of our vendors.  I assumed this was standard and have no issue with it.

     
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    jaylii9    September 5, 2010  

    Our deposit that we put down May 2009 was half of the total amount. The 2nd half of the total (final payment) is due a month before the wedding. I think this is pretty standard for wedding photographers.

     
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    tintine1    October 2, 2010   Las Vegas

    2 weeks prior here.

     
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    Almost Mrs. Marshall    September 6, 2010   New Jersey

    @Ms_Charisma: I understand how you feel I wouldn't feel comfortable either paying everything up front. How do you know he will show up (He probably will Im just saying). I put down 50% and the other half is due the morning of the wedding. That was one of the first questions I asked and I know the photographer personally, however looking at the board it seems like its pretty standard, but i say go with your gut.

     
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    Mrs.MedinaJr    November 11, 2011   Houston

    We have to pay 30 days before our wedding date in full. I am also nervous about paying in full because if something happens we can't get that money back? I rather wait and put it off as long as I can.

     
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    Ms_Charisma    October 2, 2010   MN

    True @2peasinapod. I think I'll print a copy of the signed contract and note at the time of the exchange that it's XX amount in cash (with her signature of course). Thanks for that!!

     

    @Mrs.MedinaJr - I know. That's how I felt. I know nothing is 100%...but I just feel more comfortable with an alternate set up.

     

    Thanks everyone! It's always interesting to get different perspectives/experiences.

     
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    DBallman    June 16, 1994   Southwest Ohio * Chicago * Southern California

    for myself - and most of my colleagues I know, yes one to three weeks is pretty standard, but there are plenty of exceptions - I know some who take a much higher retainer then balance due on album delivery for example.

    I did day of years ago but the last thing I want to do is try chasing down someone for money on wedding day - let alone having them worry about it.

     

     

     
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    missjyc    September 18, 2010   macomb, michigan

    we paid $750 down and the balance is due 2 weeks before the day of the wedding. standard.

     
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    Ella1978    June 19, 2010   Cleveland, Ohio

    Ours was supposed to be two weeks prior, but because she knew us well, she was okay with receiving it the day of.  She likes to know that the check will clear before she shoots the wedding.  Makes sense.

     
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    roxy821    August 21, 2010  

    There isn't a single vendor that will not be paid in full by the date of the wedding. Most of our vendors either require payment payment anywhere from 60 days in advance to 2 weeks.

     
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    ribbons    June 12, 2010  

    I would've never signed a contract like that, but a lot of people are trusting I guess. It stirkes me as cash flow problems to not accept final payment after the wedding, after all services and products have been rendered.

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    we had the same payment policy as ribbons. i think the 1/3, 1/3, 1/3 method makes the most sense.

     
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    maureen9004    August 2008  

    My clients are required to pay 50 percent up front to reserve a date and then the remaining balance the week of the wedding. I'm not going to spend 30-35 hours editing photos without full payment- I learned the hard way after being scammed. The bride in question requested to pay the remaining 50 percent after she recieved the disk- I agreed. When she got the disk she decided she did not like the photos (yet posted them all over facebook?) and was not willing to pay the remaining balance. It was a hassle.  I would have understood if the photos weren't up to par- but this was some of my best work and I was very proud of them (and they helped me book a few weddings.) I've heard other photographers having similar problems.

     

     

     

     
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    baldor1    May 7, 2012   Southern California

    This thread has been very helpful for me. I am finalizing the contract with my photographer this week and I also wondered about payment. Thanks for posting the questions and for the replies. =)

     

     
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    stephbolt    April 30, 2010   Philadelphia, PA/Frederick, MD

    We paid 50% at booking and 50% one month before.

    I wish we hadn't.  We ended up having a lot of issues getting our disc after the wedding (took over a month from when she told us it was ready to when we had it in hand, and that's only because I went and picked it up from her) and when we did get it, discovered a big issue with some missing pics that took a while to resolve.  I feel like she would have had a lot more motivation to get us the disc and respond promptly had 1/3 of her payment still been outstanding.

     

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