[Fun Spinoff] My Fiance loves me but…

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
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Bumble bee

@Anamagana:  mine hates the way i chew, too.

 

he also hates if i touch the cat and don’t wash my hands for a solid 30 second before touching him. THE CAT IS CLEANER THAN HE IS!!! grrr.

 

 

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Honey bee

DH hates it when I ask him if he’s angry with me just because he’s being quiet. He rarely gets upset with me or upset over most things in general, but when he’s tired, he gets really really quiet. So I ask him what’s wrong and I don’t take “I’m just tired” for an answer. he says if I don’t stop asking what’s wrong then there will really be something wrong lol.

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Bumble bee

@Anamagana:  My SO dislikes that for some reason when i sleep i am the “destroyer of covers”, the sheet usually ends up in a ball on the floor and the comforter ends up on him or on my head….no clue why or how, im just talented like that….

I also drive him nuts because when i am in school i take OVER literally half the living room for the whole semester….its all organized in piles, but my crap takes over and i dont put my books on the book shelf….

minor stuff i know but after 5.5 years you think it would have driven him mad by this point…..

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Honey bee

I can be a ditz sometimes. I’m usually not, but sometimes it’ll just be one of those days and everything just flies over my head. He hates it. 

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Honey bee

My FI loves me but… my hair gets EVERYWHERE. 

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Bee Keeper

Mr. 99 hates several things I do, they are as follows:

Not putting laundry away, instead living out of the laundry basket downstairs in the hall.

Leaving a piece of paper or a flyer on the upstairs table, it will be thrown away after a three day “waiting period”

Leaving the television on when I’m not in the room watching it.

Locking doors when I close them, even if he’s out working in the yard!

Leaving a pile of coats on the sofa

Making blanket forts in the basement and falling asleep in them when he’s not home, he says I look tragic all curled up in there with the dogs and it makes him feel like an asshole for staying out late…I just like blanket forts, OK?

 

 

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Bumble bee

@MissBoPeep:  mine too! i shed like there is no tomorrow…..its super long and really dark reddish brown….and his is short and sandy blonde, soo no question as to whose it is….im just glad he loves me enough to clean my “hair balls” (his words) out of the shower drain….

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Honey bee

  • I leave the cabinets open
  • I don’t clean :) (I also work way more than he does)
  • I fall asleep many hours before he does
  • I wake up many hours before he does

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Honey bee

FH is not a fan of my cleaning skills. Growing up I only had a few responsibilities as far as cleaning went in my house. After moving out it was easier to just let things go a little because either my roommate would clean up or if I couldn’t sleep I would clean. Now that I live with FH, it’s tough because while he’s more organized than I am, we both get slack with chores but FH will have random days where he wants to clean everything, and it’s always on a day when I have 400 other things going on, so I can’t help much. He gets frustrated, I get frustrated… everyone is unhappy. 

FH also hates the fact that my hair ends up on everything he owns. 

FH also doesn’t like the fact that I actually need 8 to 9 hours of sleep to function. He thinks if we go to bed at midnight, I should be waking up at 5 when he does, and that’s just not happening.

 

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Helper bee

Fun! 

- Hanging towels on doorknobs instead on the hooks in the bathroom (I’ve gotten a lot better at this!)

- Don’t eat meals then later say that I’m starving

- Take forever to get ready to leave the house – I’m not even primping myself, I just wander around and forget what I’m doing.

- Put random food items in the cart when we’re grocery shopping (“babe, did we really need 3 boxes of popsicles/more ground beef/mini cupcakes?”)

 

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Bumble bee

@autumnmountainbride:  I take forever to leave, and I’m seriously a no-fuss dresser. I’m almost exclusively jeans and a t-shirt, but I get distracted!  He tells me to quit stalling.  I don’t do it on purpose!

I leave cabinet doors open.

I never ever put my car keys or my debit card away, and then I always complain when I can’t find them.  (I don’t even know why I do this, I make myself crazy).

I always forget to put the dustbuster back in the charger.  I leave it everywhere.

I also hog the covers, and mess up the bed, and never remember to hang up my towel.

He is by FAR less annoying than me.

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Bee Keeper

That I am messy.  I had a crazy neat freak mom growing up, and I rebelled accordingly.  His childhood was the exact opposite, so he hates clutter.  I tend to be a packrat, too, so that doesn’t help :P

He still loves me though!

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Bee Keeper

  • I crack my knuckles
  • I pick at my skin – pimples on my face are bumpy so I smooth them out…
  • I do the laundry only when the very last underwear is dirty
  • I am on weddingbee all day (He has threatened to take my computer away!)

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Helper bee

@Quietserenity:  Exactly! I’m not doing it on purpose… I just have the attention span of a goldfish! 

I used to do the same thing with car keys… until he put a hook right at the door. Everytime I would walk in, he would say “Hi baby, how was work? Hang your keys!” since they’d still be in my hand. After about a month, I started doing it automatically and he stopped saying it. :P

I think our habits are about equally annoying, but very different. We compliment each other. 

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