(Closed) Funny, weird or rude things people ask you about your wedding

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

– why are you having such a long engagement?

– is your wedding going to be outside? I don’t want my heels sinking in the grass…..

– I am invited….right?!?

LOL

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

“you’re wedding is in the winter? the dead of winter?”

“how much is your wedding going to cost?” – that question REALLY made me mad- the nerve!

 

 

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper

My dad upon learning that our wedding is probably going to be at the Mirage Volcano asked if he could wear a sarong to the wedding. Uh, sure? Haha. They play tiki music during the show part so I guess he thought it would be fitting.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’ve had people ask me how much we paid per a plate.   I also got November and you’re makign people WALK (the distance b/c the ceremony and reception is like 2 blocks). 

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

“How much are you spending on your wedding”

“Oh i wouldnt do that its tacky” 

“Well I wont come unless you do this” (well you were never going to be invited so it doesnt matter)

“Your thinking about doing a backyard wedding? Why would you ever do that”

“Your not getting married in a church, well Fi is going to have to begg the church to let him marry again when you too get a divorce” (wish i was lying about this one from FMIL)

“Dont do catering we can cook it all ourselfs” (This lady sucks at cooking when its a small group of people)

“You already have 2 kids and are living together whats the point in getting married now”

And more sadly…

Post # 8
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455 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I had a male coworker ask me how much I paid for my wedding dress.  I was like whhaaat?  It was plain weird.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

-Asking the budget

-asking if so and so is invited

-saying i HAVE to have chair covers

-saying (jokingly) that they won’t come unless it’s an open bar (they were kidding, but still, RUDE)

-Asking why we’re having it on a friday night

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Evie19: Well, the cost question can work two ways. If they are just being nosy, then screw ’em. But I had a dear church friend ask me what I was being charged to rent the church. I openly disclosed any bugetary information I have up to this point, and offered her advice, if she ever needs it. I wish someone had done that for me. I had no idea what I was getting into, and if I can help out another young’un, then awesome!

But as for strange questions….

“So, you’re totally inviting us, right?”

“Can I bring my girlfriend, my best friend, AND his girlfriend?” *seriously?????

 

Post # 11
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161 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I have a co worker who had her BM ask if the BM and BM’s boyfriend could STAY IN THE BRIDAL SUITE WITH HER!!!  Ummm, what? Do you understand what a bridal suite is?

I’ve also had someone ask what I’m wearing the first “night” as a married woman…. this was not from someone I’m close with!

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

@vmblai1019: Yes, you’re right it definitely depends on the context.

The person who asked me had just met me and was explicitly asking to see how expensive everything was and if I was going “all out” in front of a lot of other people. There was no other reason he wanted to know, other than his nosyness. It was very very rude!

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

“How much is ________ going to cost?” would probably be the most popular.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

“There’s an open open bar right?” The person was implying they wouldn’t come without one. There is an open bar, but I was still offended.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

You know you forgot to invite ____. (No I did NOT forget, I meant to not invite them!)

 

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