(Closed) FUTURE BIL- a cheater

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

You know I dont like them either. I am so glad that my Darling Husband refused to have a bachlor party. He said he had no need for one. 

I know that you trust your Fiance but what is he going to do while this naked girl is dancing on his lap, read a book? lol 

His brother seems like he is up to no good. I hope it all works out.

Post # 4
5096 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Have you talked to your Fiance about it? How does he feel about strippers?

Post # 5
3583 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@GolferGal:  Even if BIL gets a stripper that is totally willing to do more, if you fully trust your fiance, you probably shouldn’t worry about this.  My fiance is going to a club (which I approve) but I would not approve a hotel suite stripper.  Nuh, uh.  Those girls are dirty. It’s not even about my fiance, it’s that I think they should at least try to class it up a bit.  I mean, come on.  I have seen Very Bad Things.  O_o

Post # 7
11752 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Fi should be man enough to stand up and say no and refuse to participate and remove himself from the situation should Future Brother-In-Law ignore his wishes for no strippers.

Post # 8
388 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

He definitely should remove himself from that entire situation!!! 

Post # 10
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I personally wouldn`t worry about it. Sounds like your fi has it under control. Fbil may grow up one day when he meets the right person.

Post # 11
384 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2004

what is FIs stance on strippers?


Post # 12
2336 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

It sounds like your Fiance did what he could to set boundaries for his brother.

My Fiance gave his groomsmen a very stern warning about strippers as well (he doesn’t want them there AT ALL) and if they show up, either they will be leaving or he will be leaving.

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