Post # 1
I guess has what you would call a “dry sense of humor” … and most times he comes off as so cold, mean or emotionless.
I really am kind of starting to hate him for it. Like … after this morning … I don’t really care to see him ever again! I’m so … upset at him.
Fiance was showing his s.i.l. a copy of our invitation … which we just got and mailed. Future f.i.l. made this remark that was so mean and future m.i.l. even called him out and said “What are you jealous?” to future f.i.l. … I mean … I don’t even want to say what he said because I’m so emotional about it right now … but seriously I went nuts in the car on the way home from their house.
He is such an a##hole. GAH.
Ok. Just had to vent. I didn’t even say bye to him … I am just going to ignore him for the rest of my life.
Post # 3
I am so sorry that happened to you! Usually it is FMIL that are the problem! I think you are wise to ignore and not say anything. It won’t do any good. He sounds like a sad, miserable person!
Post # 4
- Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch
Ugh! I’m so curious what he said… but whatever it was, I’m sure it was totally unnecessary. Why do some people have to make mean jokes at other people’s expense?
Post # 5
My FIL sounds very similar and made constant rude remarks during the wedding planning process, and seemed shocked at how nice the wedding was when it actually happened (no thanks to him or my MIL…I almost felt like they were trying to sabotage the wedding!). I’ve come to learn that whatever his problem is, and he most definitley has one, its his own. It has very little to do with me. He seems to think anything other than things he is interested in are “silly” and a “complete waste of time”. I am cordial, but I pretty much ignore his remarks now that used to make me bristle or cry.
Post # 6
It’s hard to understand when I don’t know what he said exactly,
Post # 7
Hopefully as you grow to understand and love his family he will come around and treat you the way you would like to be treated. Until then, good luck!