Future MIL (who refuses to meet me!) Hates me!!! HELP!

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
6158 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

your FI needs to talk to his mother.

Post # 4
3596 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Yeah he needs to talk to her. I think she being dramatic. At this point don’t engage with her, don’t our gasoline on the fire in any way.

The only thing I see in this situation is that it seems like she is more upset about the sitation rather then personally disliking you. She needs to get the hell over it.

Post # 5
3016 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

Ugh, she sounds a bit ridiculous, but if I were you I’d just let my FI deal with it. I agree with the pp who said it’s about the situation and not about you. Assuming she’s not totally cray crazy, eventually she will get over it. 

Post # 6
2871 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Djacks88:  This is her problem. Not yours.  She is the one emotionally conflicted. I don’t know what God she serves, but the God of the Bible is a forgiving, merciful God.  

Post # 7
4468 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Djacks88:  She is definitely being ridiculous. Your FI needs to put his foot down and set her straight. Everyone else has moved past his divorce- she needs to do the same. Sorry you have to deal with this:(

Post # 8
817 posts
Busy bee

She is being unfair to you but let your fiance deal with her.  If you try to say something to her, however civil, she will likely take it the wrong way.

If she can’t get over it then I agree with everyone else, that’s her own problem.

I’m sorry you’re going through this 🙁

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