- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2017
If you have read my other posts, I have been having issues with my fiancee. STILL not date set and since I got my hours cut, moving out isn’t an option as of now.
My future mother-in-law has been pressing me to make her 6 year old daughter my flower girl. She continutes to press the issue and now the 6 year old asked me constantly. I don’t not want her to be my flower girl, I don’t even know if there is going to be a wedding.
I don’t want her daughter in my bridal party. I have already made my plans for whom I want in MY side of the bridal party.
Just the other day, she tried to press me on what to do with the bridesmaids dresses (she isn’t even a bridesmaid) and what colors to pick. She argued and said I am only suppose to pick 1 color. *rolling eyes*
Her SON will not set a date with me and her SON is the one who has held up the wedding. I have explained that to her. She won’t listen.
What’s also weird is that she has an older son than my fiancee. Why not press HIM to get married instead? After all he is 3-5 years older anyway.
What’s sad is that her pressing me makes me not want a wedding at all.
She doens’t like the fact that I possibly want to get married in or close to my hometown. I personally don’t care. My family doesn’t travel as much as my fiancee’s family does. AND I love where I’m from.
I don’t know if I can take the pressure anymore from her or the none exisitant excitment from my fiancee.