Post # 1
So over the past few months of wedding planning i have noticed something with my future husband’s sister. She is married, had a big wedding a couple years ago… so anyways when it came time to decide a theme for my wedding i loved peacock feathers and teals and purples. Well he told his sister and she said that peacock feathers are “her thing” since she had them at her wedding but totally different colors… so im like ok fine… whatever.. but then she just went and picked up her bridesmaid dress and i asked her if she would try it on for my future husband and i and she said no, she wants him and her husband to see her for the first time in the dress on MY wedding day.. am i being silly, or is she stealing my thunder just a little?
ps. she also wanted her and her husband to come on our honeymoon with us..
Post # 3
I dont see how that’s stealing the thunder at all, but it’s weird she wants to go on the honeymoon with you guys.
Post # 4
Eh, I wouldn’t say she’s stealing the show, maybe just being more of a pain in the butt. When I got a really nice formal dress for a military ball, I wouldn’t let DH see me in it until the night of the ball because I was really excited. Maybe that’s her reasoning for not wanting her DH to see her in the dress??? As for your FI, I hardly doubt he’ll remember what anyone is wearing on your wedding day but you 🙂
But…for the honeymoon request? That girl is BATTY! Who in their right mind thinks a newlywed couple wants company on their honeymoon???
Post # 5
She seems a bit self absorbed. She needs to atleast try on the dress to make sure it fits and it would have been nice if she could show you how it looks. Seems weird that she’s making such a big deal out of it. As for the HM, she needs to get real. She had her wedding and HM, now it’s your turn. She doesn’t get to tag along unless you invite her which you obviously won’t be doing.