(Closed) Future Sister-in-laws Issues

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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311 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I am in such a similar position but my wedding isn’t until August… so I have several more months of dealing with the FSIL! lol… I feel really bad for you, but just know you are not alone! As of right now, my fiancee has NOT asked his sister to be in the wedding. Her and I were pretty close until he proposed to me and it was like the flip of a switch! We grew up together too! Our stories are a little different but feelings are the same toward the FSIL! So if you ever need to vent you let me know! lol… just try not to let her get to you. Its your special day and you should not let ANYONE bring you down girl. I feel bad that we have not included his sister in the WP yet, but I dont want someone in the wedding that isnt supportive. Keep your chin up! *hugs*

Post # 4
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2004 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2008

I’m sorry you’re going through such drama with your FSIL. I would try to keep your calm until the wedding is over, and then hopefully things will return to normal. It sounds like she has a lot of wedding-related issues herself, and your wedding is bringing them out of her. Stay strong!

Post # 5
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192 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I know exactly how you feel and I feel bad for anyone that has to deal with something like this. I understand that when you marry someone you are “marrying the whole family” but personally I don’t agree with this. My FI’s sister is horrible, we were friends up until my FI and I started getting serious and we got into a huge fight and haven’t actually spoken to eachother since then and that was almost a year ago. I refuse to let her or her presence ruin my day, just remember that it is YOUR day, not hers and no matter how many tantrums she throws your FI loves you and wants it to be all about YOU! 🙂 Hopefully once the wedding is over she will calm her nerves and get over it and if she doesn’t then don’t stress, you can never make everyone happy!

Post # 6
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970 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Why can’t the flower girl ride in the limo? That seems to be a fairly easy concession.

Some people are just difficult. The important thing is, your FI is on your side.

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