Post # 1
So for the last week or so I have decided that all engagment and wedding talk would be put to rest and I would just do my own thing. I don’t talk about the Bee or my blog. I don’t talk about the ring or the venue. Nothing. So instead of coming home and asking him to cuddle with me or something else, I have been catching up on my cleaning, reading, blogging, painting my nails, talking to friends, ect.
This whole week has been wonderful! We are having sex more, he kisses me in the morning, he’s starting to compliment me all over again, ect. Nothing feels like a chore. This morning I woke up and his hands were all over me. He didn’t want me to leave bed. We haven’t been this way since the first few months we moved in together.
HE MADE DINNER LAST NIGHT! He was off yesterday and when I came home he had made pot roast in the slow cooker and had apple pie in the oven. WHAT IS GOING ON!?
So at dinner he mentions that he’s getting a bonus and he wants to put some of it into a high yield savings account for OUR WEDDING! Who is this man!? He brought up the wedding without me prompting him! I figure if I stay the course, I will have my proposal by the end of the year!
He sent me a text at 10:45am and I was busy at work so didn’t reply right away. He just texted me again 10 minutes ago with some cutsy stuff.
Oh, and just to be safe, I’m making engagement chicken tomorrow night. ^_^
Post # 3
Pot roast, apple pie and engagement chicken. I’m coming over hahaha.
I think guys know when we decide to not talk about the wedding. I decided a few days ago that I am not going to mention a thing about wedding stuff. And what does he do, he starts talking about music at our wedding, then the candy bar at our wedding. Ehhh, silly silly boys!
Post # 4
Wow! Keep it up girl -I can smell an engagement!
Post # 5
Wow! That’s fantastic to hear! Funny how the simplest things actually work.
Weird that you posted this, because on Wednesday night I told J that I didn’t want to talk about wedding stuff, our future kids, or a buying a house anymore. I told him that It hurt to talk about it because we’re not actually planning anything, we’re always just talking and it never gets anywhere. So from now on: no talk until planning time comes. He noticed that I was pretty down the past few days because of all of this. So last night I decided to have some ‘me’ time and I went shopping. When I came home, he had cleaned out the fridge, made his lunch for work, did the dishes, cleaned the kitchen, prepared the coffee urn for the next morning, and started dinner. *SHOCKED* would be an understatement.
Oh, and I baught the book: “Why Men Marry B*tches” that same night. I didn’t even have to open a page to see a difference in my man, lol.
Post # 6
I haven’t bought the book, but heard about it. It’s Friday and we do not have any plans tonight together so I think I’m going to ask one of my friends to go out with me and have a girls night catching up. I talk to her everyday but I haven’t seen her for a while. His head will probably explode that I am leaving the house without him!