(Closed) Gemini FI…Drives me nuts!!!!!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@CodijoC:  What sign are you? My FI and I are 180 away from each other so it works… Aries and Libra…

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Being indecisive is a typical characteristics among Geminis. My FI is a Gemini as well so I know where you are coming from when it comes to this particular characteristic. It drove me insane while we first started dating and I told him it was driving me crazy. He promised he would do his best to be more decisive which he has improved a lot.FI us SUPER excited and looks forward to the wedding day more than I do (I wish we had more time to plan!), lol. His excitement makes me forget my desire for more time and reminds me I am marrying my best friend.

My best suggestion to you is to talk to your FI before your wedding day. Tell him how you feel about certain characteristics which drive you insane and advice him to improve and tell him you will help. It worked for me and I hope it does for you too!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@CodijoC:  Btw, I am a Sagittarius and from what I have read, our matches are compatible.

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012
Post # 9
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7653 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m sorry for your troubles, but are you really basing your compatibility with him and his personality on his astrological sign?

I think he’s just being a typical groom right now. I think a lot of FI’s are indecisive about wedding plans and just plans in general. Maybe his sign has nothing to do with his moodiness. Perhaps talking to him and asking how he feels about the wedding and if anything at work/school/home is bothering him will be a better idea.

Just my personal opinion. Take it or leave it, but I think you need to have a discussion with him about his attitude towards every day things.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@CodijoC:  I’m a cancer and my fiance is gemini as well so I know exactly what you mean in terms of the indecisiveness and moodyness. My guy drives me nuts but I find it really helps to try to focus on the good things about him and what he does for me and really try (HARD as it is!) not to focus on the stuff that drives me nuts. Also, talk to him when he’s calm and happy and tell him how you feel and see if that straighforward talk helps- I know it does with me.

Post # 12
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Busy bee

@CodijoC

OH MY GOODNESS!!!!

My FI is a Gemini. We are currently not planning our wedding right now as we got a surprise baby on the way.. But HOLY COW are we dating the same man?? I hear you girl, it is frustrating and insane!!! HE drives me up the wall….. But I love him so much!

 

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