(Closed) Get Bridesmaids Separate Hotel Rooms?

posted 10 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
22 posts
  • Wedding: October 2008

Is your wedding out of town? I was having the same confliction and have finally settled on renting a cabin for the weekend (our wedding is out of town and there are lots of vacation rentals).

Post # 4
73 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

I assume all three are coming without dates? Personally, I think it would be more fun to have company (all three in a room) than stay in a hotel room by myself. I wouldn’t necessarily assume that the bridesmaid who doesn’t know the other two would want to be on her own (although maybe she would!). Since she may potentially feel like the odd one out, I would ask her first which situation would make her feel more comfortable and then go from there 🙂

Post # 5
72 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2008

Have you considered getting looking for a suite?  We found one for some friends who were visiting us once.  They had two seperate rooms with a common living area.  It wasn’t anything fancy- I got the impression it was designed for a family so the parents had their own room but the kids were close.

Post # 6
2293 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

If they are bring dates, they definately need separate rooms.  A suite is a nicer option than a big hotel room.  I would definately ask them before you put them all in one room, and particularly before you put two of them in the same bed.  I would happily share a hotel room with most of my really good girlfriends, but I would prefer not to share a bed – even my sister and I get separate beds when we share a room.

Post # 7
388 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

Sharing a bathroom with someone you know is one thing.  Three women sharing a bathroom is another.  And Suzanno is right, some people are fine sharing a bed, but not everyone is.

It’s very generous of you to even offer paying for any of the lodging.  As a Bridesmaid or Best Man, I wouldn’t expect it, but would be grateful if it was offered.  I’d say #2, unless they are planning on bringing dates, then #3 is the solution.

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