(Closed) Getting Along With Inlaws/Futire Inlaws (Poll)

posted 5 years ago in Family
  • poll: Do you and your SO get along with eachother's families (inlaws/future inlaws/potential future inlaws
    I get along w/ his/hers, and he/she gets along with mine! : (89 votes)
    73 %
    I get along w/ his/hers, but he/she doesn't get along with mine. : (3 votes)
    2 %
    I don't get along w/ his/hers, but he/she gets along with mine. : (22 votes)
    18 %
    I don't get along w/ his/hers, and he/she doesn't get along with mine. : (1 votes)
    1 %
    Other (explain if you like) : (7 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 4
    Member
    1308 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I feel soooo lucky that my FI and I both get along fabulously with our FI’s. Seriously, I truly feel like I have hit the jackpot! We each dealt with our parents not accepting exes so it’s not like they aren’t picky! LOL

    Post # 5
    Member
    1237 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I get along great with FI’s fam. He seems to get along well with mine too but he’s interacted with them far less so it’s hard to say for sure

    Post # 7
    Member
    3358 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I get along great with his and he generally gets along fine with mine.

    Post # 8
    Member
    2137 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    i get along with FIs older brother and his wife, THATS IT! i cant tolerate his mom and his two sisters are kind of out of the picture.

    FI gets along with my parents.

    Post # 9
    Member
    1715 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I get along with his family when I have to but I cant stand any of them (except for the 3 and 6 year old). My family is his now they treat him like there own son in most situations. If FI has great news he wants to share the next person after me to call is my mom. I wish his family werent complete morons.

    Post # 10
    Member
    3618 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I guess it depends on the definition of “get along”. If you mean tolerate each other and put on fake smiles. Then we’re both a yes. If it means we’re bffs with each other’s families then nope!

    Post # 11
    Member
    288 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    How timely! My future in-laws arrived three days ago from abroad… and they’re staying with us for the three weeks until our wedding! My fiance gets on really well with my family, but I have a harder time with his… going to be a long three weeks, I’m afraid.

    Post # 12
    Member
    4276 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    For the most part they get along. My mother dosn’t understand my MIL and will make judgemental comments about MIL smoking marijuana occassionally and drinking. MIL is also very outgoing that makes friends easily where my mother does not. So while they get along, you won’t see my mother actively wanting to hang out with MIL and go see Magic Mike or something….

    Post # 13
    Member
    1618 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I LOVE my mother-in-law to be, and I think my sweetie feels the same about mine!

    Post # 14
    Member
    5246 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I get along well with his parents because I live with them and I have too lol. But they are very easy going and generous and I like them alot. My fiance gets along super well with my parents also and I think they actually like him better than me!!

    Post # 15
    Member
    533 posts
    Busy bee

    We are pretty lucky. Both love each others families and they love us. Both families are easy going and I really enjoy seeing them.

    Post # 16
    Member
    6125 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I get along with my future ILs great!  I see them maybe 1-2 a year they live 900 miles away.

    My mom lives 1500 miles away.  She and FI and a rough interaction one visit.  She has some issues and is really awkward socially, yet she blames it on everyone else.  He got on her good side using his charm after a couple visits, and all in all it’s good.  My mom is just an odd duck.

    My dad died 6 weeks ago.   He loved my FI and bragged about him all the time, even though they’ve met only 3x total.

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