(Closed) Getting Annoyed

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3574 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Do you have any cousins, or sisters?  Does your FI??

Post # 5
871 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I know people will say “sides can be uneven” but being uneven and having nobody on your side are two different things. Do you or Fiance have any sisters or close cousins? There are no other friends besides these girls?


Post # 6
3697 posts
Sugar bee

Are the groomsmen the SO’s of these girls, or other buddies of your FI?

Post # 8
1427 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

First, i’m sorry you’re dealing with that kind of petty stupid childish drama. I’d personally call out thoes friends and say “look i get it. You prefer each other’s company over mine and that’s fine but please stop being so hurtful about it.” if they’re fake and petty then whack them off your social life; life’s too short to have petty mean people in it.

do you haev any co workers that you’re close with or maybe more distant friends that you can ask?


Post # 9
2705 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Honestly, I would probably just not have a wedding party at all.  If these girls aren’t your friends then they shouldn’t be standing up with you.

Though, I have to say that I’m a bit confused, you are complaining that they aren’t including you but you said you’ve tried to end the friendship with Friend A several times.  Do you want to be friends with these girls or not?

Post # 10
26 posts
  • Wedding: September 2012

How about having two groomsmen and have one on each side of you and your groom? just a thought… It would be sucky if you had bridesmaids that don’t respect you or like you for that matter…. It’s YOUR day and you should be happy and feel beautiful… they would probably ruin it if they were your bridesmaids… but good luck!!

Post # 13
8464 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@canyouhearmenow13:  How distant is this friend of yours that you’re thinking about asking?  I am sort of in your same situation: I don’t work so I don’t have co-workers, I’m an only child and have no close cousins, and everyone that I know who lives near me is a single male.  My Fiance and I moved across country a few years ago, and I lost touch with a bunch of my close girlfriends.  I just recently made contact with them (one girl and I were particularly close) and realized that our friendship was just the same.  Now I’m asking her to be my Maid/Matron of Honor.  You might just want to reach out to these friends, you could be pleasantly suprised by what’s there.  Good luck and don’t let this get you down.

Post # 15
115 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@canyouhearmenow13:  I was in a similar situation last year in regards to feeling left out, I wasn’t engaged at the time so I didn’t have to worry about not having any bridesmaids. I don’t think you are a loser and you shouldn’t feel that way, most people have aquaintaces or friends but there is a difference when it comes to having close friends.  For my wedding I chose to only have 4 bridesmaids, and was thinking about having more but I rather not have so much bridesmaids. If it gets looked at that I have no friends because I’m only having 4 girls as bridesmaid, then so be it. That day is about you and your fiance.  In regards to being left out, maybe with some time and distance your “so called” friends will realize that you are worth having a friendship with. I regret the way I acted when it came to this situation. I flipped out on my really close friend and then we didn’t talk for a year. Now we’re getting along fine, and I realized the way I acted was overboard. I might ask her to be a part of my wedding but going to wait some time before I ask. 

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