(Closed) Getting closer…I can see the light..LOL

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
131 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Are you already engaged? My suggestion is to not mention it anymore. Based on experience (you can read my past post), it does not work. It will all fall into place in due time, but of course there is a time when waiting too long means you might need to contemplate whether or not marriage is really in his future with you.

Post # 4
971 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Well I want to start by saying, if he wants to marry you, he will no matter how much you mention it. No man truly wants to spend the rest of his life with someone and then backs out bc she talks about it too much. Having said that it might prolong your wait. I can see him wanting some element of suprise and that is understandable bringing it up frequently could mess that up for both of you.  =/

I am not one to endorse timelines and such but you should decide at what point you should re-evaluate your relationship, not break up but, re-evaluate.


And finally…girl… sounds like he is serious! One try not to get too worked up I have read way too much into what I thought were obvious hints before. It only hurts everyone…so…remain calm and level headed. Go on about your life, make plans with friends and have a blast being you! And hopefully the best suprise of your life is right around the corner.

Best of luck fellow waiting bee =]

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