- 8 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
So, FI and I have had the rounds w/planning and, as I’m sure many others have done the same, played with hundreds of different ideas and venues. Next weekend we have appointments to visit a ceremony venue and a reception venue that (online) I love and that are in our small price range
I’m very excited, but there’s this part of me that is utterly petrified. The thought of writing a check for the first wedding expense is so scary to me. I’ve worked very hard to save up money for the wedding (while being a full time grad student so my idea of “lots o’ money” is anything above $100 lol) and will continue to and the thought of that savings account beginning to be depleted is suddenly freaking me out! I still struggle with the idea of 1000s of dollars on one day even though I know the memories will be incredible.
Did this happen to anyone else? I would sprint to my FI at the end of any aisle, but I’m definitely feeling like dragging my feet when it comes to that first wedding check…