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Getting DH's Sperm Tested?

posted 4 months ago in TTC
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    MarryMeTiffany    November 30, 2011   Illinois

    We decided to start TTC in October but I have baby fever BAD right now! I'm in my early 20's DH is 38 and I'm constantly worrying about his fertility and google does not help. I really want to run a marathon before TTC but I really really want to start trying like NOW! I have a pap test tomorrow do to abnormal cells I have a pap every 3 months. So I am thinking about asking my doc if she will right a referel to our locor lab to get my DH's sperm tested. What do you all think good or bad idea? I told my DH my plan and he laughed but I'm super serious. What is  the average cost to have it done? We pay for our own insurance so we would be paying for the test out of pocket our deductable is high.

     
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    Mrs Green Grass    August 14, 2010  

    It's not very expensive, but it's not really necessary unless you guys have problems.

     
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    mwitter80    December 11, 2010   Connecticut

    Seems a little early to ask for that. I would try for a couple months before you start testing everything.  His age really isn't a factor btw. The male species is nothing like us.

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    I agree that it's a bit early to do it if you haven't had any problems yet.

     
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    eagle    August 2012   Calgary, AB, Canada

    Yeah I would try getting pregnant for 4-6 months before getting sperm analysis. In Canada I know they wont do it unless you have demonstrated infertility for a year (or so I've heard). 

     
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    MissGreen    July 2009  

    Well here's the thing, everyone says a woman in her late 30's shouldn't hesitate to go to an RE over an OB due to her age for tests etc so I think the same can be said for men. We only paid $150 for DH and his insurance actually covered some so we were reimbursed $75 afterwards. I'd say it wouldn't hurt and it's the easiest test to do.

    Edit: I understand to some age isn't an issue in men. However DH is a healthy, active 28 year old that had a poor SA. Had we known earlier in our journey it would have saved some pain and heartbreak. The $150 expense is nothing as knowing ahead of time maybe beneficial to some. Especially to those of us who tried for over 18 mths.

     
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    Candy_Nee    May 1, 2010   Raleigh, NC

    My husband's insurance covered his completely.  My GYN told me that typically you have to wait to have demonstrated issues with getting pregnant.  And, more often than not, they treat the woman first because "it's easier".  For us, we're both dealing with infertility, so it would and wouldn't have done us much good to get him tested early. 

     But, if age is the only factor, I wouldn't just jump into it.  Try on your own and see what happens.

     
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    CallmeC    October 5, 2013   South

    At this stage in the game I think doing so would be extremely premature. Unless he demonstrates an issue that wouldn't be the first conclusion to jump to. 

     
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    78h2o    October 8, 2011   MD (wedding was in OR)

    @MarryMeTiffany: I don't think it makes sense to do it now, since you haven't TTC at all... however, if you don't conceive after a few months of trying and you can afford it, I think it *might* be worth it just for your peace of mind. 50% of infertility problems are male-related (regardless of age), and my understanding is that SA is one of the least expensive and least invasive tests. Most docs will tell you to wait a year though... I am almost 34 and my doc told me that if we haven't conceived in 8 months to have DH get a sperm analysis - that was her recommended starting point.

     

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