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Getting FH to do his wedding errands?

posted 2 years ago in Grooms/men
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    Ms. Guava-Tini    October 10, 2009   Miami, Florida

    My FH is extremely busy. He's a partner at his law firm & plenty on his plate. I have the summer off from law school, although I am working - I am constantly doing wedding stuff.

    I cant bitch - b/c he's done the biggest job of all - paying for the wedding & has offered to plan the honeymoon b/c he knows I have my hands full with the wedding & said he wants to gift that planning to me since i am doing everything for the wedding.

    Well, last week, I emailed him his "to-do" list - It was seriously half a page long, while mine is three pages long or more. There is only so much I can do - i.e. I cant go to the tux store to try on his tux or make the final decision on it & advise the best man whether he'd be wearing a suit or tux and my father.

    How did you get your FH to get his booty to work on his to-do list?

    p.s. sorry for the venting - but today's our 100 day out to the wedding - and Im about to get Bridezilla on him.</font>
     

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    tessabella76    September 12, 2009   Ohio

    Bribery? Reward him each time he finishes a task of his list.

     
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    budgetbeautiful    9/26/09   Fredericksburg, VA

    I second bribery! Also, could you assign a deadline for the tasks? Something realistic? That way he can see what he needs to do NOW, and what can be done in the weeks leading up to the wedding. I know my FI responds well to deadlines.

     

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