Post # 1
So because I don’t have enough to worry about with my wedding 10 days away…
Now Im worried that I’ll miss the Hive and all you wonderful Bees! You have honestly been so supportive and helpful! You have gotten me through this. I see a therapist and was telling him yesterday how this site has saved me from so much! WHen I need to vent I can do it annonymously here rather than tire my family or friends with my wedding talk. When I’ve needed advice, you’ve been here! When I had questions, you’ve answered them! When I needed a laugh or satisfy my voyerism, I’ve looked at your rings, dresses, photos etc, When I thought my family was the craziest, I’ve found stories of worse cases!
Basically, you have made this journey incredible! –And it’s not over yet, I foresee a lot of posting in the next 10 days
But then what am I going to do? I imagine I’ll come back with an update on how everything went and theeeen do I leave the Hive? I’ve seen a few Bees on here who were married a while ago but I wonder, if it just won’t be the same
Post # 3
I always see people on here who are already married and some have been married for quite awhile. You can still come here and talk about non wedding things and also offer ideas to other people who are planning, because you’ve been there. That’s what I like about this place 🙂
Post # 4
i have noooooooo intentions of leaving the bee after the wedding. i would be lost without it! there are TTC boards and loooooooooots of NWR stuff for you post-wedding 🙂 plus you need to post your recaps anyways!
Post # 5
@HourThyme: I’m sure you won’t even be thinking about the bee when you start your new married life. You will be excited and busy. If you do miss it, you can always come post again.
Post # 6
@mu_t: I probably will leave after because I won’t have wedding brain anymore and it won’t be top of mind. I don’t post pictures of myself on here so no public recaps for me!
Post # 7
@HourThyme: Aww sweetie! You are totally welcome to hang out here with us after your wedding. After our wedding 2 years ago, I found myself coming back to WB even more than I did when we were planning our wedding – I really enjoy helping future brides plan their big days! 🙂 All this being said, enjoy these 10 days!! It’s almost your wedding day! Eek! 😀
Post # 8
@MrsPanda99: Darnit. I was looking forward to a panda filled recap. 🙂
Sorry for the hijack.
Post # 9
stay if you want – go if you want.
you may find yourself so sick of weddings that you don’t want to be anywhere near the place :p
Post # 10
@aithinne: I will definitely post pictures of my furmonster in his tux, lol. Just not of my face.
Post # 11
@HourThyme: I’m still here and I got married a few months ago now.
Post # 12
I’ve been married for almost a year and I’m still here! I love weddings, and I’ve found the TTC/pregnancy forums super valuable. Stay as long as it is helpful to you!
Post # 13
@HourThyme: Honey….I been married since June and I come on almost daily! There have been bee’s married for YEARS and still come one… nesting and newly wed advice, hellooo 🙂 !
Post # 14
@MrsPanda99: you’re gonna leave after?!?!?!?! whaaaat?!?!?! i can’t imagine this place without you. you post so much NWR stuff and we need it. doooooooooon’t leave us 🙂
Post # 15
they have the nesting boards too. that will be the next step, i assume.
Post # 16
I was away from WBee for approx 6 Weeks during our “Wedding Extravaganza” trip… and I did miss all the wonderful Bees here at “the Hive”
Lol, and they missed me, as I discovered when I came back home and started posting again.
And so it goes… many of the regulars here are some what cognisant of when other regulars Wedding Dates are, and you all cross our minds, and we think about you when we know you are off saying “I Dos” and Honeymooning
And we are genuinely excited when you get back.
Then you will find you’ll fall back into “the Hive” as time allows … catching up, and posting Recaps etc
There is most definitely a point in time when you will come to decide if you want to move on, or continue posting
The good thing about WBee is there are lots of Boards to choose from… and many Brides stop by to check in / post on their faves after the Wedding for months (if not years) afterwards… as you can clearly see by looking at people’s Profiles and their listed Wedding Dates etc.
Not a bad thing.
Hope this helps,