Getting married in 3 weeks! Nerves starting to hit!

posted 2 years ago in November 2014
Post # 2
Hostess
8680 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

I felt pretty good up until that 3 month mark when I started making lists to make sure everything was done. My wedding is on the 31st [of october] so we are super close, but I’m really stressed out. Stressed to the point where smelling food makes me sick, and I’m not sleeping well.

It’s not even the wedding itself that stresses me out.. I’m just a really private person and the thought of standing in front of 40 people and having my picture taken all day is freaking me out. My fiance is scoring me some Xanax for the wedding [well, I’m going to take it a few days in advance to make sure it doesn’t affect me in a negative way], so I’m hoping that will calm me down alot. I’m just afraid I’ll be too anxious to actually enjoy the day.

Post # 3
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426 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

ooooh i was the same! Pretty chilled then about a month before i started to get nervous and anxious! Just soak it all up though! It goes so fast! My day seemed a blur! How exciting! good luck and CONGRATS !xxx

Post # 5
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347 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

UKbee:  my big day is 31st October as well. Currently I fluctuate between a strange sense of calm and utter panic/stress at having to be the centre of attention lol I’m sure it’s normal to feel nervous/stressed as well as excited.

Honestly I just want the day to come now – the last few weeks have been so stressful!

Post # 6
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2428 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I was anxious mostly about everything coming together since we planned it all ourselves. Will we have enough drinks? Will people have a good time? I was always excited about the marrying part 

About 3 days before is when I started to get really calm. There wasn’t much more we could do at that point. Everything will work out, and it will be the happiest day of your life. Congrats!!

Post # 7
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4596 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I just got marrried last Friday, and felt the nerves kick in the couple weeks prior… especially last week. I did not sleep well a couple of the nights (thankfully took the whole week off from work) because I was going over my To Do list in my head and worried that some things might not get done. I was also battling a nasty cold, so that didn’t help either!

However, the day of… I was nervous in the morning and mainly nervous about timing. But, after my hair and make-up was done, and I was sitting at my parents house relaxing before everything else started, I was relatively calm. Once the photographer got there and that started, DH showed up and we did our first look photos… it all came together and our wedding really did not have any major moments of panic. It was a GREAT day!!

Post # 8
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913 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014 - 11/15/14-Vineyard

Ohhh  UKbee:  I am the same way right now 11/15 here – 23 more days! I’ve been a wreck. I have my calm excited moments but it’s mostly been worry and anxiousness. I haven’t slept well the last week, haven’t had an appetite, my stomach is all jacked up. I have no doubt I want to marry him. I have no doubt it will go off fine, so I don’t get why my body is acting like this. I just want to see it all come together as planned in my head and be here already. You are NOT alone!

Post # 9
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88 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

MrsTtoB:  UKbee:  Yup, 2 weeks Saturday and I feel the same!!

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 1 month ago by  biasstarfish. Reason: Oops, I keep thinking today is Friday!
Post # 10
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83 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

64 days untill my wedding and I am getting anxious just reading the comments! 

I am sure your wedding will be magnificent!!! Congrats!! xo

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