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    tinkerbell_83    October 22, 2011   UK

    Im getting married this weekend, saturday afternoon to be exact...

    I want to marry my fiance more than anything & i am so excited about the day, but I am also very nervous

    very very nervous, nervous that ill not look as pretty as i want too, that people wont like the food, or that they wont think the venue is nice or that they wont have fun!!!

    i know this is all very insecure of me, but i cant help it, does or has anyone else felt this way before their wedding?

     
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    couawilou    October 20, 2012   Toronto, Ontario

    From what I've read from past Bees, take a deep breath and take it one moment at a time. Relax and dont worry about everyone else, this is your day, take it all in and enjoy it, you will be marrying your FI and that's the big thing to look forward to. This is just my opinion, I'm not married yet and I'm sure that when I get that close to my wedding, I'll feel the same way you are now and will probably have to come back to this post to make me feel better hehe

     
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    pengoala    September 4, 2011  

    I honestly had moments of feeling like I couldn't breathe, before the ceremony - this may seem like a weird suggestion, but keep Bananas on hand - the potassium in bananas function as a great beta blocker, to keep your nerves intact.  Everytime I panicked, I'd eat a banana - it worked great and everything went fabulously well!  Take it in, and enjoy your day!!

     
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    KLloyd1    October 22, 2011   Hilliard, Ohio

    Hey date twin! I am having the exact same freak outs! I haven't been nervous this whole time (17 months) but this past weekend, I had my 2nd bad hair trial and a bad makeup trial and I'm scared that I'm going to look a hot mess. I also worry that people won't have fun. I'm trying to stay calm and get through the week and then I will just have to try my best to relax and enjoy it all. Good luck to you!

     
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    swanks4tw    October 22, 2011   Wichita, KS

    Yay date twins! I'm definitely sharing your nerves and excitement! Just breathe deeply and remember that no matter what happens, even if everything goes wrong, at the end of the day you will be married to the love of your life! Congrats! Can't wait to see recaps from you and the other October brides :D

     
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    littlecat    October 1, 2011  

    OMG, the entire morning of my wedding i thought I was going to throw up/faint... I was so nervous about everything, and fainting just seemed inevitable... One of my bridesmaids convinced me to snap out of it, since that was the one thing she regretted about her wedding- being so nervous and stressed the whole time.  I found some solace in champagne, and be sure to invite that one friend of yours who keeps you calm to get ready with you- even if they arent in the wedding- that helped me a lot. 

    ENjoy yourself!!

     

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