@ceemarie7: I ABSOLUTELY THINK THIS CHICK who posted the 2nd blog…is so so Stupid! OMG seriously what a perfect example of why Christians get a judgey name… I am A CHRISTIAN by the way, but her article ERKS me SO MUCH. (I Am not yelling at you CeeMarie, by the way, lol I am just yelling to make my point, LOL…& I need to vent)
I am getting married and am for marriage but GOSH PEOPLE LET PEOPLE WHO DON’T WANT TO GET MARRIED AT 23 AND WHO ACTUALLY WANT TO DEVELOP THEMSELVES AND FIND THEIR IDENTITY BEFORE THEY BECOME ONE PERSON WITH THEIR HUSBAND DO IT.
Why IS IT Okay for moms and wifes to post articles about how much BETTER it is to marry young and have kids young, but GOD forbid if someone says why it is so much better getting married later.
If you LOVE your life choice so much then WHY does she need to defend it. Sorry for the ALL CAPS, but I am just so so so so tired of all this back and forth of what is better, marry young, have kids young and why one is the right choice and one is the wrong.
Who IS THIS chick to take that 23 yr olds list and tear it apart. IT IS MEAN & JUDEMENTAL.. Shame on her…She should let others who chose a different life from hers, live it without trying to show that hers is better. Her article reminds me so much of my old roomies, who were super Christians and all they did was Judge Judge Judge, talk crap about everyone and act like they were so above everyone. So mean spirited and cold hearted.
Why can’t she let people who don’t want to get married at 23 have a little attention, have a way to tell other teen girls that GUESS WHAT Their is MORE to do other Than JUst GET MARRIED. OMG No WAY!!! There are enough articles out there pressuring teen girls to get married and have babies young, let there be some articles embracing NOT DOING THAT!!
It is HARD enough in the South with all the pressures of getting married young and having kids young, when you may really want to focus on yourself and career and God forbid you embrace maturing, and figuring out yourself, your career path and what you want in life..
Let these woman who want to EMBRACE their 20’s without a MAN do it D*mn It! I am so over it… If all these married women with kids in their early 20’s are SOOO HAPPY then they do they have to constantly bring down other women’s decision to stay single, when OMG they have valid points on why they want to wait to get married.
I am getting married very soon and I could of when I was younger to my 2nd boyfriend and Thank God I didn’t! TO each their own…But if you are so HAPPY stop trying to convince everyone you are happier than single 23 yr olds… GOSH
OK RANT OVER, Sorry if I annoyed some, But this just ugggh makes me so annoyed!