- 4 years ago
- Wedding: April 2014
So I have to tell my FI mutiple times that he needs to make up his side of the guest list. Theres a lot of stuff that depends on it like the food, the cake, how many invites were going to need, the showers. I’ve been telling him for months and he still wont do it saying we got plenty of time! Doesnt seem to get how much stuff depends on it! Luckily our wedding got bumped back to April next year now so we do have a little more time but still would be nice to have. Plus hes making the invites cause he’s a graphic designer. He has the picture for it just has to tweak a few things and add the information part that I already wrote up. Still hasnt done that. And I’ve had to ask him a million times for his childhood and baby pics for the slideshow my sister is making of us to show at the reception. And he still hasnt picked his groomsmen or offically asked his bestman. Kinda driving me nuts that he wont do anything wedding related! I dont want to seem like a bridezilla or drive him nuts about this stuff but I need him to realize this stuff takes time to do and needs to get done! Anyon have advice of how I can nicely but firmly get him on board and kick his butt into high gear to do this stuff?!