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I would just talk to a doctor about it. It's easier and less invasive for them to reverse a vasectomy so they might be more willing to do it on a younger person.
You shouldn't have a problem finding a doctor to do it, especially with him being over 30. I had the Essure procedure (permanent, non-surgical sterilization) at age 26 despite never having kids, and while the doctor wasn't thrilled about doing it, he respected my wishes to remain childfree. Good luck!
From what I've heard, men can get sterilized much easier than women. I don't think he will have a problem with it, especially since he is in his 30s.
Thanks girls! I'm going to look into that Essure procedure as well....he is not against getting "snipped" but I'd like to explore other options as well. And to be honest, I'm also really looking forward to not have to take birth control - as I have been for the last 10 years!
He should be fine, from what I know of the procedure. Both of my uncles had it done in their thirties.
I *strongly* recommend Essure. It was quick and painless (done in a doctor's office), and I love that they do a follow-up procedure three months later to confirm that your tubes are completely blocked. Also, it has been shown to have a lower failure rate than vasectomy or traditional tubal ligation. LOVE IT!
@ walkunafraid: did it hurt? how long was the prodcure and recovery time? and did insurance cover it?
No pain whatsoever. I do hula hooping for exercise, and I did my regular exercise regimen the same night of the procedure, so no recovery time for me. I took two over the counter pain relievers because it was recommended, but that was it. The procedure itself probably took 10 minutes, but I was in the doctor's office for about an hour for the pre-procedure stuff (i.e., they give you a valium to help relax you and a local anesthetic injection. Some give doctors give you IV sedation, but I didn't want that...I'm terrified of needles!). You do have bleeding for a few days afterward, but it's a small price to pay.
If your insurance covers voluntary sterilization (e.g., vasectomy or tubal ligation), it should cover Essure. Mine did.
Unfortunately I just found out my insurance doesn't cover any procedure in regards to tubal litigation or vasectomy.....
@MrsJKH2be: Darn! I think vasectomies aren't too bad ($1,000 range) but that stinks they will not cover it. I know my FI's did (he was only 26).
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Sooooo.....
FI and I are NOT having kids (I will be 28, he is 31). This is a decision we have made after a lot of discussions. We will not be changing our mind - call us selfish, its okay - I've heard it all!
My question is....Will doctors perform a vasectomy for males if they haven't reached a certain age or haven't had children yet?
I know many doctors who REFUSE to "tie the tubes" of a woman if she hasn't had children yet or hasn't reached a certain age - regardless of whether they have firmly decided not to have children. Didn't know if anyone out there has (or knows someone who) has experienced this.