(Closed) :::: GETTING VERY UNPATIENT WITH THE "WAITING PROCESS":::::

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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2269 posts
Buzzing bee

@Kaitywaity:  If he’s traumatized, then I wouldn’t be pressuring him. That doesn’t sound fair to him 🙁

Also, it’s impatient, not unpatient. lol 🙂 

Post # 4
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4894 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

It’s best to leave it alone and not pressure him. The more you insist, the more he’s going to pull back. Other than an open honest discussion of if he plans to get married at some point…

badgering him for a ring is only going to kill the surprise if there was ever going to be one and put him off. 

Post # 5
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4524 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Kaitywaity:  As hard as it is, given his marriage history, I would absolutely do everything my power not to bug him about it and run him off!

Post # 8
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1541 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I would have an open discussion about his fears-in a nonthreatening way. it may be a good idea for him to seek some type of counselling. If he does propose at some point, he may start comparing both times, which you wouldn’t want.

Post # 9
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5894 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Have you tired Mr. Bee’s plan?

Post # 10
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314 posts
Helper bee

@KoiKove:  That Mr. Bee’s plan WORKS! I have friends who got on this site and actually got engaged because of it. They should do testimonials. lol

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