Post # 1
Hi ladies, tomorrow is my bridal shower and i dont know when to give my “girls” the gifts i got them. I got my bridesmaids their gifts months ago and then my love decided he wants his brother and sister in the wedding to be juniors and i had to get a gift for his sister and it isnt the same as the bridesmaid. She is 12 and i am afaid she is going to throw a fit when she sees that i didnt get her the same gift as the other girls. I dont know if i should do it before or at the shower?? Im just confused. thanks
Post # 3
I gave my girls their gifts at the rehearsal dinner, are you getting them a seperate gift for hosting your shower? Maybe you could take a few minutes to give your FSIL her gift in private so she doesnt see hers is different when the other girls open theres? I would give them the gifts at the end of the shower though.
Post # 4
I would say rehearsal dinner or morning of the wedding (depending on what the gift is). I’ve been in a few weddings and this has always been when I’ve received the BM gifts. If you’re worried about any fits being thrown by the JBM maybe you could give her her’s at a different time from the other bridesmaids. Make it seem like it’s extra special